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We all argue. We all get angry. We all lose our temper because the cleaning supplies ran out and we already asked our housemate / lover etc to please bring some back from the shops. But why do some relationships work out and last forever and some…Well…Fall flat on their face in a way that defies believing? So…You could pretend that it’s just a simple fact of the universe being out to get you. You could go around thinking that it’s everyone else’s fault and you have never been the one to make the fatal mistake. Or you could trace it back to some past event. It’s up to you, it’s your opinion, after all.
Speaking of opinions, here is mine: I think it’s mostly to do with communication. Or mis-communication as is more accurate. Quite simply, if my theory holds any truth whatsoever, it’s not really your fault or the person you were going out / friends with. The end came, quite distinctly, because of this.
Of course, it isn’t always like that: sometimes it is someone’s fault and they are, of course, to blame. But let’s not be too hasty, eh? We don’t always need to blame someone to move on. In fact, it’s better not to assert too much blame, because when it comes down to it, when you really analyse this, for the most part breaking up (with a partner or friend who you drift away from) is the fruit of a complex series of events that could not have gone any other way, and the specific things that make you You and them Them. Thus, we all have to get used to who We are and learn how to get along with one another. Because it isn’t always the other people who are at fault. Every so often it is us for not knowing ourselves well enough and not wanting to accept that Yes, we have our issues, too.
